Aita for not giving my son spending money.

AITA for not giving him money. Obviously don’t share this anywhere. The him is my husband. He’s gotten himself into a lot of debt. Credit cards, loans, etc. He realized he was short on his bills and overextended. He asked me if I had the money he needed. I almost had enough. But I didn’t give it to him.When it comes to charity, we’re all used to donating money or giving up our free time to help others less fortunate than ourselves, but some people are in need of basic provisions such as clothing.This comment is NOT accusing you of copying anything. Read this before contacting the mod team. Hey im a 23(M) and I've been working full time since I've been 16. I don't really go out much and don't have to much of a social life so I pretty much save all my money. My mom on the other hand has been on disability for as long as I can remember. 13 months ago, OOP wanted to know if she was an AH for not giving her daughter money when she had little contact with her daughter during the daughter's life. Update 17 hours ago. TW: divorce, parental alienation Original post by u/daughterissues3872 in r/AITA. AITA For Not Giving My Daughter Money After She Ignored Me Her Whole Life Neither child went to grad school, but you decided to give money to one but not the other, so it's not even about grad school like you pretended. You basically decided your daughter's goals didn't meet your approval so you didn't give her the money that had been set aside for her. 6.5K.

Back to the topic, aside from paying the rent with the Australian Government money and giving my wife 50 dollars for 2 weeks for groceries I don't think I'm entitled to give them more than that. They're not worth the extra expenses that I got paid. My wife couldn't work due to her chronic illness and my incompetent child couldn't get a job. 13 months ago, OOP wanted to know if she was an AH for not giving her daughter money when she had little contact with her daughter during the daughter's life. Update 17 hours ago. TW: divorce, parental alienation Original post by u/daughterissues3872 in r/AITA. AITA For Not Giving My Daughter Money After She Ignored Me Her Whole Life

If he got a likely letter his dream school is probably one that does loan free financial aid but not scholarships, with the idea being that if you get in they want to make sure you can afford it (so if you're poor enough admission is enough to get a full ride since admission probably means you'd get a good scholarship at a state school) but they aren't going to give …

He wants not to 'waste money' well there you go - Enjoy!! I hope OP and her son continues to give each other heartfelt gifts in front of the husband and he can just sit there like a bump on a log and keep on being 'practical' with his own cheap-ass-lack of …This has caused a whole thing with her saying we went back on our word to her but in my mind we never told her otherwise. If she had asked if she eloped or had a tiny wedding if we would give her some of it for a honeymoon, we may have considered it but its hard to know because we were never given the request, they just went and did their own ...Hello! Today we have new #AITA stories from #reddit for you. Enjoy! :)Story 1: OP's wife believes that her daughter is entitled to the inheritance from OP's ...AITA for not giving my son's stepson money for university when I have for all my other grandkids? There are 4 stories. Show more.

If you do not want to give someone money, you don't have to - and doing so in this case would be quite foolish. I believe the phrase is, "Setting yourself on fire to keep someone else warm." Don't do that. You are very foolish for giving your brother money, so just stop. Your father should have known better.

AITA for not giving my son's stepson money for university when I have for all my other grandkids? There are 4 stories. Show more.

Original post: https://www.reddit.com/r/AmItheAsshole/comments/zmrhgu Like and subscribe to get more content of your favorite subreddit I have three kids...John recently got engaged to his girlfriend of 2 years and they want to get married by the end of this year. She seems nice. However, she doesn’t earn as much as him. My son spends a lot of money on her, on dates and expensive gifts. I understand that it’s his money and he can spend it however he wants.There's an expression in English "You can't pour from an empty cup." If you give your sister the money now, you can't afford to go to that school. That will affect your career and potential to earn more money later. You would be in a better position to help your sister in future if you attend the school.NTA tell the ex to have her BF that she cheated with to get a good enough job and pay for it yourself. I would also talk to a lawyer about her trying to use your child in this matter of her begging for money and that she is blaming caring your son as the reason you should pay. Please what balls on this woman. 3.The US military is one of the largest employers in the world, with over 2.1 million active duty personnel and 1.3 million reserve personnel. With such a large workforce, it’s no surprise that the US military spends a significant amount of m...NTA don't give her nothing. well just what she spend on the game and that's it. make sure u hide it well or else she will find the money and not give it back at all. unled_horse • 9 mo. ago. NTA but either 1. Don't go to bingo with mom 2. Pay for yourself 3. Pay for both of you and take her winnings next time.

Not for not giving money but for the way you spoke about your sons interests. You can tell him to be better at managing their finances but to say that about his interests I'd call that cold. It doesn't matter what they spend their money on as long as they make sure they are being wise in their spending. The money aspect of this you are n t a for.Yes but that is after the son showed dedication. It sounds like OP is setting the same standards for his daughter and has elaborated that he has invested $50-75 for every new hobby she starts, which she then gives up on after a month or so. 1 more reply. [deleted] • 2 yr. ago.My son and daughter-in-law are not spending their money on toys and vacations. I may have put that badly. The reason that my son doesn't have a lot of savings to pay for his son's education is because of how he chose to spend his money prior to getting married. I hope that is clear now. Edit #2. I have talked to my husband and son. My son wants ...ESH. You for treating him as “less than” for not wanting to go to college. Say what you want, but you gave $50k in kind to your daughter & $5k plus a used car so maybe $15k in kind to your son. A $35k difference. You played favourites. Your son for thinking it was time to balance the scales over 10yrs later.Please view our voting guide here, and remember to use only one judgement in your comment. OP has offered the following explanation for why they think they might be the asshole: (1) Giving my nephew a large sum of fun money (2) while giving no money to my niece [yet] even though she is strained financially, possibly seeming like I have ...When my and my other brother's kids were born dad started a college fund for each one of them (it's supposed to achieve $2million when they reach 18), last week Amy discovered about the funds and ask dad about it (she has 3 kids 7F,5F,2F), apparently dad has been giving the money that was supposed to go her daughter's to the NWLC to help other ...OP has offered the following explanation for why they think they might be the asshole: I bought my kid an expensive laptop for school despite having agreed with his mom to not spend too much money on stuff for him. 2. It is a violation of what we agreed to do, according to her. Help keep the sub engaging!

Remember op her son not being to buy his books is not your problem nor your responsibility. Even if you weren't invited to the party the cookies were a good gift. So the next time your neighbor needs some last minute baking goods for a party remember to send her the invoice and don't forget to add a rush fee because free cookies don't count as ...AITA for not giving my inlaws money I inherited from their son’s passing. My soulmate was diagnosed with stage 4 colon cancer at 32 and passed away less than 2 years after the diagnosis. I was his primary caregiver during his illness, and ended up quitting my own job to take care of him full time for the last 10 months of his life aprox.

CS:GO, short for Counter-Strike: Global Offensive, is one of the most popular first-person shooter games in the world. With a growing eSports scene and millions of players worldwide, it’s no wonder that many aspiring gamers want to improve ...OP has offered the following explanation for why they think they might be the asshole: I bought my kid an expensive laptop for school despite having agreed with his mom to not spend too much money on stuff for him. 2. It is a violation of what we agreed to do, according to her. Help keep the sub engaging!At least an associates degree. That will get her something and give her skills for the future. She might not want a 4 year degree but high school and some college, technical school/associates degree can take her farther in a career than where she is at. After that anything else is hers. A good compromise. 362.YTA. You reward your son’s laziness by giving him spending money because he refuses to earn his own, and punish your daughter for getting a job and earning her own money. Your favoritism is going to bite you in the ass later when your kids are deciding who’s going to be taking care of you when you’re old.My son and daughter-in-law are not spending their money on toys and vacations. I may have put that badly. The reason that my son doesn't have a lot of savings to pay for his son's education is because of how he chose to spend his money prior to getting married. I hope that is clear now. Edit #2. I have talked to my husband and son. My son wants ... So I have two kids, a 20m and an 18f. My son is football player at a division 1 public school. My daughter just graduated. She will be going to the same school (it is in state). I'm pretty well off and could have paid for my son's education, but everything is covered from football. I give him some extra spending money.

That inheritance is yours and yours only. Do not play with your future for the sake of helping your brother, he spent his fair share of the money on bad decisions, thats on him. And your parents have no right to guilt trip you into spending it on what they want, you're legally an adult, do what you think is right. 8.

For my daughter's 17th birthday, I bought her an iPad Pro as it is well suited towards her uses. It has 16 gigs of RAM so it should last her a while and I figured it was a good investment. My son is upset because she always gets the "better things," probably because I also bought her a good monitor not very long ago.

AITA for giving my son ~$15,000 when he turned 18 and moved out, but refuse to give the same amount to my daughter? ... End of the day OP sounds like a very generous parent and not the type that wouldn’t help pay a phone bill, or …AITA for not giving up my room because my half sister wanted it as a “christmas gift” I (F16) live with my mom and her husband. ... Her husband offered to give me money to decorate the other room without spending my money but i still declined. ... She's not a young child that would struggle to decorate her room like yours. She's only two ...AITA for not giving up my room because my half sister wanted it as a “christmas gift” I (F16) live with my mom and her husband. ... Her husband offered to give me money to decorate the other room without spending my money but i still declined. ... She's not a young child that would struggle to decorate her room like yours. She's only two ...Trent took the risk that Sam would never repay him, so the money is his. You know I’ve heard of gold digging partners who feel entitled to their partner’s money, it’s a whole new level to go after their kids’ money. Do not give her the money, and do not let her try to guilt your kids into giving her the money.NTA. If you were left the money, to be given to you when you turn 18, complying with the terms of the will is not optional for the executor. Your family could ask you to let your mother hold onto the money for you until you were older, but they don't get to make the decision to do it against your will.I, (f39) have a son (ftm19). My son was living at his dads and was turned out before graduating high school, when he turned 18. He moved in with his fiancé, at his fiancés brother’s house. I offered my son a place to stay and to pay for his GED too, but told him I could not also house his fiancé or his cats. I live 4.5 hours away.Judgement_Bot_AITA • 1 mo. ago. Welcome to r/AmITheAsshole. Please view our voting guide here, and remember to use only one judgement in your comment. OP has offered the following explanation for why they think they might be the asshole: I think I’m the asshole because I told her no when I live in her house and she’s my parent and needs ...Hello! Today we have new #AITA stories from #reddit for you. Enjoy! :)Story 1: OP's wife believes that her daughter is entitled to the inheritance from OP's ...25 000 is such a ridiculous sum of money, I'd be forever indebted to someone who gave me that and wouldn't dare ask for more (seriously, in 4 years of full time work I've saved $2000. 25k is huge) even if you're now super rich it is NOT your job to baby him. He made bad decisions and clearly thinks of you as a fall back.I gave my children an ultimatum because I did not want my ex-wife in my life period, no co-parenting bullshit. Although it was probably not the best decision, we let the children choose (12M, 10F, 8F and 7M) who they wanted to live with and my exwife decided to move to another state with one of her many cheating partners approximately 500miles ...AITA for not giving him money. Obviously don’t share this anywhere. The him is my husband. He’s gotten himself into a lot of debt. Credit cards, loans, etc. He realized he was short on his bills and overextended. He asked me if I had the money he needed. I almost had enough. But I didn’t give it to him.The last thing I'd ever want is for me and my son to not be close anymore because he's my world and I've had to raise him by myself for 17 years. So thank you everyone for the advice and comments. So for the backstory I have a 17 year old teenage son and I wish I was being dramatic but he is genuinely the most irresponsible person with money.

Also tbh £200 or 266 USA dollars is a lot of money for an allowance that is £2400 at year (3,194 USA dollars) If you can't do that for both kids maybe have each only get £100. It is a good chance to teach both about budgeting. Also the favoritsm talk will be gone and they can earn there expensive iteams. Asshole Enthusiast [6] •. This is a sign that as an adult who doesn’t even live in the same country with your dad, you should not have a joint account. Joint accounts are for when your lives are fully financially intertwined and you don’t have ‘my money’ and ‘your money’.YTA. You reward your son's laziness by giving him spending money because he refuses to earn his own, and punish your daughter for getting a job and earning her own money. Your favoritism is going to bite you in the ass later when your kids are deciding who's going to be taking care of you when you're old.AITA for not giving my son spending cash for vacation? My son is 18. He was going to be home next week because it is his spring break. I had planned a low-key family party with just me, my wife and my three other sons. I thought he'd check in, then go to his mom's, his friends. Last night my son FaceTime me and said he wasn't coming home for ...Instagram:https://instagram. robert fiorentinozillow wellington ohiocrew coxswaincactus paddles recipe Asshole Enthusiast [6] •. This is a sign that as an adult who doesn’t even live in the same country with your dad, you should not have a joint account. Joint accounts are for when your lives are fully financially intertwined and you don’t have ‘my money’ and ‘your money’.My daughter is upset because we are not giving her any money to buy clothes as we did my son. this likely isn’t about you not paying for her now. she sees you refusing to help … sarah kirkwhen's the next ku basketball game Back to the topic, aside from paying the rent with the Australian Government money and giving my wife 50 dollars for 2 weeks for groceries I don't think I'm entitled to give them more than that. They're not worth the extra expenses that I got paid. My wife couldn't work due to her chronic illness and my incompetent child couldn't get a job. organizational leadership structure 29 votes, 54 comments. So my son is normal very responsible so I decided that he could have free run on my card on his console just but to ask me…Apparently the sister would have been babysitting at a rate of $62 per hour, but still decided not to do so, calling it “unpaid labor”. The gist of the story is that the …I put $35k down on a retirement house and I saved like crazy for my own retirement. I was able to retire at age 52 and, if the market doesn't make me broke, I will leave my 3 children much more than I received. They don't "need" it. They are all adults with families and good careers. They tell me to spend my money, I earned it.